THE LENS OF LOVE COMMUNITY
Do you often see yourself through a filter of harsh judgements?
Would you like to view yourself with more compassion?
Are you interested in the possibility of feeling more love, joy and peace in your life?
Do you think that sounds like a good idea?!
If so, I invite you to join me in Tʜᴇ Lᴇɴs ᴏғ Lᴏᴠᴇ Cᴏᴍᴍᴜɴɪᴛʏ - a loving Community without hierarchy or dogma, where we meet every week online to support one another to learn, heal and thrive!
Together we help one another drop the filter of judgement we see ourselves through, so we can come to see through the lens of love instead, and thus make the most of the precious time we have on earth!
You are welcome to bring whatever you are struggling with to Community meetings - whether that be anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, trauma, addictions, body image insecurities, disordered eating, relationship difficulties, financial worries, work stress, health issues, depression, grief, loneliness, overwhelm, fears related to dire political/global developments, or other challenging experiences/circumstances.
Tʜᴇ Lᴇɴs ᴏғ Lᴏᴠᴇ Cᴏᴍᴍᴜɴɪᴛʏ is a place you can come and share from the heart, unburden yourself, touch into the stillness within, and reconnect with your inner wisdom, which will guide you to take whatever right next step makes sense in your life.
But it isn't just a place to share your suffering! You'll also be encouraged to give voice to your achievements, successes, progress, insights and development. We celebrate the good news too!
Nor is it a space solely for talking earnestly about the big questions of life or lofty spiritual matters! 😆 We can keep it real, laugh and have fun as well! Life without humour is simply too hard, and sometimes we all need to take a break from the doom, so we don’t get ground down to the point we can’t function anymore.
In summary, this is a place where all of you is welcome!
A space…
🤗 Where you feel free to show up, even if you’re struggling.
🤗 Where you don't have to 'look your best'. Or always be in a good mood.
🤗 Where it's ok to feel angry, or cry.
🤗 Where you can be yourself and know that nothing else is required.
🤗 To explore new ideas, and different parts of yourself.
🤗 To find healthier perspectives.
🤗 For authentic sharing and meaningful connection.
🤗 To share some of both the ups and downs of this mysterious and rocky road of life.
🤗 Where you can come to get ongoing support and encouragement to face whatever's going on in your life.
🤗 To break destructive habits, let go of beliefs and behaviours that aren't serving you, and develop healthier ways of being in the world.
🤗 To slow down, take time for yourself and reconnect with your own inner wisdom, which will guide you to do whatever makes the most sense for you.
🤗 To enjoy the nourishment of having your human experience witnessed.
🤗 To feel the joy of knowing others deeply.
WHO IS THE COMMUNITY FOR?
This Community is for anyone who wants to see themselves with more love, and less judgement. It’s for everyone who could use some help in keeping love front and centre in their lives.
WHAT IS THE FOCUS/PURPOSE OF THE COMMUNITY?
Tʜᴇ Lᴇɴs ᴏғ Lᴏᴠᴇ Cᴏᴍᴍᴜɴɪᴛʏ will give you regular opportunities to come together with likeminded souls to explore what living more from love, and less from judgement, could look like in practice in your life.
Together we explore questions, like…
❓How can we be the medicine we seek? First for ourselves, and then for one another.
❓How can we keep focussed on what’s most important in life?
❓How can we navigate life’s challenges without falling prey to overwhelm and hopelessness?
❓What attitudes, insights, practices and habits can support us to live productive, joyful lives?
❓And how can we remember to include ourselves when it comes to the love we bring to the world? Since so often this seems to be the hardest task of all.
WHY THE FOCUS ON LOVE?
We all know that love that can be a hugely powerful and positive force for change…
💜 It can help us break unhealthy habits and form new, more helpful ones.
💜 It forms the basis of our most meaningful relationships.
💜 It gives us the energy to go after what we want in life.
💜 It can give us the courage to do things we’re afraid of, and learn and grow, as a result.
💜 It drives societal change – people set up charities, form political parties and start social movements to make the world a kinder, fairer place.
💜 And it can inspire us to create beautiful things in our own unique way in service to our fellow human beings.
In short, it’s what makes life worth living!
And yet, so often we get distracted by other priorities, and weighed down by myriad daily concerns, that we forget about love. Or it takes a backseat. And we fall back into the habit of being unkind to ourselves because it’s what we’re most used to.
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HELPING ONE ANOTHER LEARN HOW TO LOVE OURSELVES
Because we’ve all heard things like, “You need to love yourself more.”, but a lot of the time we just don’t know what that means in practice. So, it gets forgotten or dismissed as impractical.
Perhaps your critical inner voice focuses on the appearance of your body, and you feel inadequate, unattractive and undesirable because of your perceived 'flaws'.
If so, I can relate. I felt that way for much of my life too.
Or perhaps your critical voice focuses on other aspects of your life. Perhaps it criticises you for your apparent ‘deficiencies’ in other areas. Perhaps you don’t feel clever, capable, successful or likeable enough.
Or perhaps it’s a combination. We are often hard on ourselves in many different ways!
If so, please know that you are not alone.
We live in a culture where many of us feel inadequate. We tend to view our bodies through the filter of harsh judgements. And we often extend this critical attitude to all aspects of our lives.
We simply don’t feel deserving of love just as we are. We think we need to improve ourselves, often in many ways, before we become worthy of love.
Or we just don’t know how to be kind to ourselves because we’re in the habit of doing the opposite.
I think most of us have a lot to learn when it comes to how we see ourselves. We have become so habituated to viewing ourselves excessively harshly that we don’t even realise that’s what we’re doing. We don’t realise that we’re seeing ourselves through a filter at all. We just think we look ‘flawed’ or our personalities and achievements are ‘lacking’.
That’s why I've created Tʜᴇ Lᴇɴs ᴏғ Lᴏᴠᴇ Cᴏᴍᴍᴜɴɪᴛʏ. Because I think most of us need help in learning to see ourselves with love. And we need the presence and care of other people on the same path.
We don’t heal alone.
When we’re feeling low and down about ourselves, it can be really hard to break the habit by ourselves. We need the energy and wisdom of other people. We need to pool our emotional and spiritual resources.
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A SANCTUARY IN A CRUEL AND CRAZY WORLD
Furthermore, there is a lot of hate, cruelty and violence in the world. The online sphere is full of trolls and harshness. Most societies still struggle with racism, homophobia, sexism, and other forms of prejudice and discrimination. The world is especially crazy right now, and there are a lot of dark forces at work that want to move us in the direction of hate, of scapegoating and threatening the most vulnerable members of society. It's devastating and tragic. 💔
It can be hard to feel hopeful against this backdrop of hostility and suffering. And it can be all too easy to become overwhelmed and fall into despair in the face of such cruelty. The world can sometimes be a terrifying and lonely place.
But now is not the time to give up. We need to stand firm and realise the power within each and every one of us to make a positive difference.
And we need to support one another. We're not meant to navigate the struggles of life alone. We are stronger together.
AN OPPORTUNITY FOR SELF-CARE AND RESPITE FROM THE DAILY STRUGGLES OF LIFE
At times like this I know that it can sometimes feel selfish to practise self-care. But the reality is that unless we take the time to look after ourselves, we won't be able to help anyone else. Or not sustainably anyway.
After all, how can we make the world a better place if we're at war with ourselves?
My intention is that my membership will support you in getting in touch with the love within you, which will give you the energy and inspiration you need to be the change you want to see in the world.
HELPING YOU STAY FOCUSSED ON WHAT'S MOST IMPORTANT
So, I invite you to join me in Tʜᴇ Lᴇɴs ᴏғ Lᴏᴠᴇ Cᴏᴍᴍᴜɴɪᴛʏ where we help one another remember what's most important in life - the love that is who we truly are, and the greatest gift we can give the world.
Let's come together and keep our sights firmly focussed on what truly matters.
Regularly.
Dependably.
Tenderly.
Let's keep one another on track!
A COMMUNITY OF EQUALS
Tʜᴇ Lᴇɴs ᴏғ Lᴏᴠᴇ Cᴏᴍᴍᴜɴɪᴛʏ is less about 'teaching' and hierarchy than is often the case with this kind of thing. Although I stand ready to share my experience of what's helped me heal in my own life, it's really important to me that this is a Community of equals where there is plenty of room for each of us to find our own way.
I've been on the receiving end of unsolicited advice in so many groups, and I've always felt shut down. I want my Community to be different. The default here is to respect other people's journeys without acting on a compulsion to try to 'fix' or advise, or 'make someone see' something. Instead, each one of us keeps the focus on our own learning and trusts that that is what will benefit other people the most anyway.
It's that kind of spacious, respectful environment that has been most conducive to my own healing, so that's why I want to offer it to other people.
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A PRESENCE-BASED COMMUNITY WITH WEEKLY MEETINGS
Presence and togetherness is at the heart of everything we do in Tʜᴇ Lᴇɴs ᴏғ Lᴏᴠᴇ Cᴏᴍᴍᴜɴɪᴛʏ. That’s why it consists exclusively of live meetings where we can see one another's faces and hear one another's voices.
💗 It's about human connection in real time.
💗 There's no Facebook group. No recordings. None of that noise.
💗 There is no homework.
💗 No pressure to 'look your best'.
💗 No requirement to be in a good mood.
💗 Conversely, this isn't like therapy where it can almost become a habit to feel like you have to bring problems to talk about. Joy is welcome too! You don't need to be struggling to get undivided attention. You don't need to be sick to get help. We celebrate one another's good fortune too!
💗 You can simply rock up however you're feeling, whatever's going on in your life, and know that you will be welcome. After all, isn't that what love's all about? Appreciating and cherishing people just as they are, with the full gamut of emotions that go along with this crazy whirlwind of human experience.
A SUPPORTIVE SPACE WHERE IT'S OK TO BE HUMAN
We all get scared, angry and insecure sometimes. It's nothing to be ashamed of, and we don't need to hide it. And it certainly doesn't mean there's something intrinsically wrong with us or we need fixing. It just means we're human.
And do we really want to bypass the raw beauty of that? I don't know about you, but I find authenticity so much more fulfilling and interesting than a sanitised, presentable version of a person.
So drop the mask and come as you are, and let's celebrate our wholeness! 🥰
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WHAT DO WE DO IN MEETINGS?
There are currently two meeting formats, as follows:
1) Whispers From The Heart
A special space and precious time for uninterrupted sharing and deep listening where you can drop any mask you wear, feel the relief of being accepted just as you are and the nourishment of having your experience witnessed and honoured. Most meetings follow this format.
⭐️ At these meetings we divide the time equally between those present, and each person is allocated a set amount of time to use however they see fit. We take it in turns to share from our hearts in whatever way we feel called to in the moment.
⭐️ The invitation is to explore whatever feels helpful to you in the interests of your own freedom, growth and happiness.
⭐️ You don't have to bring something to the group which is associated with suffering! It can also be something you're excited about or are grateful for.
⭐️ You can spend some, or all, of your allocated time in silence.
⭐️ You're welcome to sing, play music, read things you’ve written or have found helpful, or show pieces of art you've created. It will be up to you. It will be your time to spend as you see fit.
⭐️ I want these meetings to provide you with a regular opportunity to slow down, explore more of who you are, and connect heart-to-heart with other souls.
Feel free to read the Guidelines for Sharing & Giving Feedback in Community Meetings. They are designed with the aim of creating the conditions for people to feel safe to share vulnerably if they wish.
2) Discussion Meetings
📖 Every first Wednesday and the following Sunday of the month will be a Discussion Meeting.
📖 We'll alternate between discussing a book or another topic/resource each month. This will give those who wish to read the book in advance of the meeting at which it will be discussed two months to read it.
📖 Please note that you do NOT have to read the book to attend the meeting at which it will be discussed. Those that have read the book can share their reflections on it, and any insights they've gained. Those who haven't will still be able to participate in the conversation since we'll just use the book as a springboard for a discussion.
📖 I want these meetings to be lively, informal and fun!
📖 There are so many wonderful books and resources out there. Let’s dive into the abundance together and see what jewels we can find! 💎
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TWO MEETINGS PER WEEK - PICK THE ONE(S) THAT SUIT YOUR SCHEDULE
✅ I'm currently offering two meetings per week. If the Community grows, and there is a demand for it, I'll be happy to add another meeting to the schedule in the future.
✅ This is to accommodate people in different timezones, or on different schedules, who are available at different times.
✅ I want there to be a meeting every week that you could attend if you wish.
✅ If you are available for more than one meeting per week, you'd also be most welcome to come along to both meetings.
✅ You don't have to attend the same meeting every week. You can mix and match!
MEETING SCHEDULE
There is a meeting every week at the following times:
- Wednesdays U.K. 6pm-7.30pm U.K. / Eastern U.S. 1pm-2.30pm / 10am-11.30am Pacific U.S.
- Sundays U.K. 5pm-6.30pm / Eastern U.S. 12pm-1.30pm / Pacific U.S. 9am-10.30am
If you can't work this out, please let me know and I'll help you. 😊
I'll keep the schedule under review to try to ensure it reflects the availability of as many people who want to join as possible.
NOT AVAILABLE AT THE TIMES ABOVE?
If you'd like to join the Community, but you're not available to attend meetings at either of the times above, please complete this Availability Questionnaire, and I will notify you when the schedule changes in line with your availability. You'll then be able to decide whether you wish to join at that point.
TESTIMONIALS
Here's what a few members have to say about being a part of Tʜᴇ Lᴇɴs ᴏғ Lᴏᴠᴇ Cᴏᴍᴍᴜɴɪᴛʏ:
❝Accepting. Calm. Empathy. Open. Safe. Loved - these are words that come to mind when I think of The Lens of Love Community and the people there.
It is a beautiful Community where everyone is free to show up just as they are. There are no expectations about how you need to be and Maria has created a very safe space.
She's been really careful to be led by the group whilst staying true to the aims and the purpose of the group.
I haven't been able to make all the meetings but always feel welcome and part of the Community when I can make it. I always leave feeling pleased I went to meetings. Thank you Maria for serving us all, for your openness and your love, authenticity and genuine care.❞
Becky, Yorkshire, U.K.
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❝The Lens of Love Community is a warm, safe, loving place to express and explore who you are, and how you feel. Feel heard and understood with no judgement, whatever you say.
Receive feedback from no one, from everyone or just from the person you need to hear from that day. That's up to you.
Discuss inspiring books, though you don't need to read them to join in. Express yourself in whatever way you want to that day, be it an outpouring of frustration, a song, or a poem that brings you peace.
Maria guides us through all this with such gentle care and love that we hardly notice that we are being guided. She is humble and yet wise, always listening to the group and looking for ways to make it even better. Everything is done, as the name says, through the lens of love.❞
Jo Levitt, Rehovot, Israel
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❝I love this Community! I feel absolutely free to share anything about myself. Everyone is open-minded and caring, and allows you to speak without any judgement. You can turn up however you are in life and learn something from the meeting. There are different types of meetings, and I like the ones where people get some time allocated to discuss anything they want. Maria herself facilitates the meetings very well. I like the laid-back nature where you can have your camera on/off, turn up for some and not for others, arrive a little late if needed. It makes me feel at home and relaxed. It's really a lovely Community and I'm happy to be part of it.❞
Michael Unsworth, Stockport, England, UK
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❝Maria is warm and welcoming, it feels like going to your second home when you enter The Lens of Love Community. I felt free to speak when I wanted to and free to be quiet when I wanted to. Everyone is respectful. I said some things that were uncomfortable for me to share and that felt quite safe. I highly recommend her Community to anyone who wants no hierarchy and no pressure.❞
Carolyna, U.S.A.
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VIDEO ABOUT THE COMMUNITY
👀 If you’d like to hear me talking about the Community – its purpose, who it’s for, how the meetings work, and what makes it different from many other such groups – you can watch a 52-minute video I’ve made all about it on YouTube.
👀 You’ll find clickable timestamps in the video description, so that you can jump to the section you’re interested in if you don’t have the time or inclination to watch the whole thing.
CLICK HERE ➡️ Watch this in-depth video about Tʜᴇ Lᴇɴs ᴏғ Lᴏᴠᴇ Cᴏᴍᴍᴜɴɪᴛʏ
COST
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ANY QUESTIONS?
If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to email me at maria@mariamorgan.info and let me know. I’d love to hear from you!
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